Bad taste is simply saying the truth before it should be said. - - Mel Brooks
Someone says or does something you don't like and you gripe, bitch, moan, complain, harp or rant about it. And when the sand settles over the mesa, feathers are all unruffled, and feelers are no longer hurt or worse when the topic is no longer of importance to anyone, the ado in fact is nothing. Here's the quarter, go make your one phone call......to someone who cares.
I am guilty as anyone of spewing about something that holds import for me in my little world that affects me and that's the name of that tune. And I always appreciate the onlookers yelling, "go get um". But truth is.....it all falls back into the same shitee pile and until it raises a "stink" again.....nobody cares.
That being said I also have to say, when it is your problem, no one else feels it like you do. They can commiserate, and try to soothe and that is what friends are for....to love you through what hurts you and try to help you. I find that that is really the truth of life. We hurt, we share, we suffer, we heal, we use that knowledge in a positive way to help someone else and in so doing move on. So the good news it's working here at Casa de Cuckoo in both directions. We love and are loved.
But heads up or duck to those that need that advice.